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Getting your ex husband back is not an easy feat. Most men will leave a relationship due to monotony or because they feel a woman is too emotionally needy, thus the only way to get your ex husband back is to show him that you are capable of taking responsibility for certain things in the relationship and changing them accordingly.
After a separation, it is wise to allow your ex husband time to recover from the event. Regardless of who left who, the event was likely to be traumatic on both parties, thus a period of recuperation will be required.
When you feel it is time right, contact your ex husband. If you were the one to hurt him, begin by apologizing. It is amazing what such a simple gesture can do. Do not be alarmed if he trying to meet new people and joining single parent dating , speed dating or blind dating programs.
If the situation is reversed and he has left you, it is a matter of simply showing him how hard you are trying to change to benefit the relationship.
After initial contact, begin to slowly build up contact. When you feel it is appropriate, invite him on an outing doing something that the two of you used to enjoy as a couple. This will serve in showing him how good the relationship could be at times and will remind him what he is missing out on by not being with you. Spending time with him is also an ideal opportunity to show him how you have changed and how it may benefit a future relationship.
Whilst together, ensure you remain attentive, yet slightly distant. Being too clingy or over the top will only serve to scare him away.
Be sure to maintain your physical appearance or, in the event that you let yourself go during the relationship, be sure to improve upon it by improving your fitness and taking pride in your appearance. Nothing will grab his attention more than seeing you looking fit and fabulous.
Improving your fitness will also serve to gain the attention of other men. Whilst you should not act on this attention, it will serve to make your ex husband more protective over you, as he sees other men vying for your attention.
Once you have re-entered the relationship, be sure to maintain any changes you have made.
If you do not feel that you will be able to sustain these changes, do not start a new relationship with your ex husband as this will only result in further heartache and pain later down the track.
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