So you want to know how to get ex back. This is not an ideal place to be in life I know. Wanting to know how to get your ex back, you must be feeling very much alone and confused. Not understand exactly where you went wrong in the relationship. Remember, everyone has gone through this before and while it may not be of much comfort to you now, these people did survive it. Everyone does.
The good news is though, it is possible to get your ex back. I am a bit of an expert unfortunately on how to get your ex back. In this article I'm going to show you a few things that will work wonders in getting your ex back.
First off, here are a few things not to do....
* Do not call them or message them constantly
* Do not stalk them
* Do not stay at home and cry and be sad
* Do not go to a bar and try and pick up
* Do not become depressed
Here are a few things you should be doing....
* Go out with friends
* Get into better shape
* Give them space to be alone
* Go out in the sun and read a book
* DO go out and meet new people and make new friends
The one thing that will push an ex even further away is clingyness. Give them room to breathe. If they do not want to hear from you, do not call them! Leave them alone. I love this saying and it is something I use often.... Give them the best gift of all.....
Give them the gift of missing you!
Powerful stuff isnt it. When someone cannot have something, they want it more. It's simply the law of attraction. Also, if that someone see's that person being enjoyed by another, that also makes them want that person more and this is where not being available, not sitting by the phone and going out makes a big difference.
I know you do not feel like going out, but do it! It is the best way to get your ex back I promise you. Who knows, you might even find someone else while you are out who is even more what you wanted in life.
Nothing turns any person on this planet off more then desperation. No one wants to be with someone who is desperate to be with them. It's not romantic, it's scary.
Stay positive and positive things will happen in your life.
Come back after a couple of days for more tips on how to get ex back.
